Tips For Good Communication Between Your New Country Neighbors

Living in the city is so different than living in thepass without patience and end your or someone
country, or rural areas. Although many of theelse's life.
same rules and laws apply for both the city andAnother thing to remember is that in cities, it is
country, life is much different for many reasons.rare to see much wild life and most dogs and
As a country gal and farmer, here are a few tipscats are indoor animals. In the country, there is a
to help those who are moving adjust to countrylot of wild life and many dogs and cats run free
living.for beneficial reasons. Yes, there are laws to
Most city dwellers are used to having theirkeep your pets confined, but here are a few
grocery and shopping needs met by driving only aexamples to help you understand some wild life
few minutes away. Unless you plan on spending aand why more pets run free in the country.
fortune on gas and time running "to town," thenKeep in mind that farmers go through a lot to
you need to learn to stock up on supplies. It iskeep food on our plates. Deer are a major
not so bad in the summer when most gardensproblem to fruit and vegetable growers. They can
are fresh, but the winter months andgo through one field of squash and take one bite
unpredictable weather can cause problems. So,out of each one in an acre or so and there goes
keep your food and water supply built up.the crop. The farmer loses out what he put into
Gardens are important to most country folkthe crop plus loses out what he could have gained
because we do a lot of canning and freezing infrom a purchase you or I bought. We had a
preparation for that food supply and winter. Most4-acre field of pumpkins once that were totally
neighbors in the country are related or very close,wiped out in a matter of a week. No one wants
unlike in the city where sometimes you do notto spend their hard earned money on produce
have a clue who your neighbor is. As God says inwith a hunk chewed out.
His Bible, "Ask and you shall receive." So, if youMany farmers hunt deer for a natural and
are unsure how or even if you want to plant ahealthier food source for their families but also,
garden, or if you need help in general, just asksometimes with special permits from the
and most will be willing to help and give youconservation office, hunt to control the deer
advice.population when they are causing damage to
And about asking, here is another very importantcrops. Many do not understand and cringe on
tip to help in your relationship with your neighbors.hunting, but to farmers, it is a necessity and a
In all of my life, most of us country folk alwaysGod-given-right. So please, try to be
asked the land owner's permission when weunderstanding when it comes to hunters in the
wanted to go mushroom hunting, hunting incountry.
general, walking or riding bikes on their property,Coyotes can also cause problems. Some farmers
or anything else. If we did not, we paid theraise chickens for eggs and food, but coyotes are
consequences from our parents. It wasa threat. Not only to chickens and domesticated
understood to always ask first.animals, but to humans as well. For example,
We have personally known quite a few whowhen our daughter was only about two years old,
move from the city and are used to just goinga coyote ran through our yard only fifty feet
anywhere and doing whatever they wish. I amaway from her. If it had not been for my dog
sure not all are like this, but we understand thatchasing it away and my running toward her, who
people are limited in the city and they cannot justknows what it might have done to our daughter.
roam free. Many of these people have childrenA neighbor up the road had some man coming to
who see these fields as their park and a place toher house to do repairs and after sitting in his van
ride a new dirt bike, 4-wheeler, or go-cart. Manya long time, she called the company to see why
do what they please without asking and somehe was just sitting there. The man informed them
hay and grain fields have been damaged. Farmingthere were coyotes in her yard and he was
is not cheap and farmers put a lot into their seedscared to get out. So, dogs in the country run
and property, so please, respect your neighbormore freely for protection and keeping animals,
and their property and ask first.with possible rabies or mange, away from our
Many people are not used to their privacy beingchildren, homes, and smaller pets.
interrupted, so if you wish to walk or check outAnd on the note of smaller pets, cats were
your neighbor's gardens or property, then again,created to eat rodents such as mice. Mice, and
please ask them and remember to ask where allraccoons, have been known to chew through
property lines are so you do not over step yourwires in barns and cause trouble more than most
bounds onto someone else's property.understand. Cats control the mice population in
We have had the personal experience ofmost grain fields and barns, thus, keeping mice
someone getting mad because we did not getdroppings and disease from the food we all end
straw on their newly planted grass right away.up eating. Cats bring their "catch" in from the field
Remember, most farmers love to help, but theyto eat and sometimes leave the guts here and
are not like hired help from a garden center.there to let you know they are doing their job
Farmers are usually very busy and have to getand to get praised, but they are keeping our food
into the fields when the weather is right, so theyand homes from being infested by mice. God has
cannot just drop everything. That is, unless therea reason for them too and that is not to be
is an emergency. Then, most are therelocked up where they cannot do what they were
immediately. So please, have patience andcreated to do.
understanding.So please, remember that most neighbors are
The equipment a farmer drives is either verydown-to-earth people who really want to help, but
slow or big and wide. Many people are in a hurryneed your respect and understanding of country
to get here and there, but please have patience.life to make things go smoothly. Understand that
Farmers are only doing their job to provide acity life is different than country living and place
service for you, not to tick someone off byyourself in other's shoes before you step in your
driving slow. They have to get from place toown. Send a note to your neighbors introducing
place too. I have seen several give farmers a badyourselves and maybe plan a housewarming party
gesture or even try to pass them on a hill. This isfor your neighbors. Communication is the best for
dangerous and can cause very serious accidents.any relationship. Hope these tips help you in your
It is better to wait until the farmer can pull overconversion to country living and in life in general.
to the side and let you pass than to go ahead and